Books such as carlyle jansen’s. It’s a good idea if women can rid themselves of these feelings. The thing that makes the classic spoon position so lovely is the intimacy (and clitorial access) you have with your partner while you do it. But guess what? you’re a strong-ass woman and actually don’t need a partner to create intimacy. Many couples masturbate together and find it a very enjoyable part of their relationship. Yvonne fulbright, phd, sexologist and sexuality educator, american university, washington, dc.
How do women masturbate?
I recommend this one: In the middle of a folded pillow or towel and move against its flexible head.